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Muharrem Demirhan 1930\u2019da Bolvadin\u2019in Kaymas Mahallesi\u2019nde d\u00fcnyaya geliyor. \u00c7ift\u00e7ilik yapan babas\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131 Abd\u00fclkadir\u2019dir. Bir o\u011flan ve bir k\u0131z karde\u015fi daha vard\u0131r. Emekli astsubay olan karde\u015fi Mevl\u00fct vefat etmi\u015ftir. Terzi \u00e7\u0131rakl\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ift\u00e7ilik, s\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fck, yo\u011furt\u00e7uluk, peynircilik i\u015fleriyle u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00dc\u00e7 d\u00f6nem de, Kaymas Mahallesi muhtarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n
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\u00a0\u00a0 Muharrem Demirhan; orta boyda, hafif k\u0131v\u0131rc\u0131k sa\u00e7l\u0131, ye\u015file \u00e7alan g\u00f6zleri olan birisiydi. Kendi halinde, yumu\u015fak huylu, iyi niyetli, ho\u015fsohbet, yard\u0131mseverdi. Evlenememi\u015f gen\u00e7lere devaml\u0131 yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Kendisi okuyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u011fitime \u00e7ok \u00f6nem verirdi. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 okutup y\u00fcksek tahsil yapt\u0131rd\u0131. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, \u00fcretmeyi, yenilik yapmay\u0131 severdi. Bolvadin\u2019de ilk yo\u011furt\u00e7uluk ticaretini ba\u015flatan ki\u015filerdendir.<\/p>\n
GEN\u00c7L\u0130K \u00a0YILLARI<\/strong><\/p>\n Muharrem Demirhan fakir bir ailenin \u00e7ocu\u011fudur. Evleri olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, Kaymas Odas\u0131\u2019nda kalmaktad\u0131rlar. \u0130lkokulu Kaymas Mektebi\u2019nde bitirdikten sonra babas\u0131na okumak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yler ve ortaokula ba\u015flar. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir \u00f6\u011frencidir. \u0130kinci s\u0131n\u0131fta iken babas\u0131n\u0131 kaybeder. Evin y\u00fck\u00fc ve sorumlulu\u011fu \u00fczerine binince, okuldan ayr\u0131lmak zorunda kal\u0131r ve hem sanat \u00f6\u011frenmek, hem de \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f kuru\u015f kazanmak i\u00e7in bir terzinin yan\u0131na \u00e7\u0131rak olarak girer. \u201cAld\u0131 vermez\u201d cinsinden iki de tarlalar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 eker. Askerli\u011fine kadar terzili\u011fin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00e7ift\u00e7ilik de yapar.<\/p>\n Askerlik g\u00f6revi i\u00e7in Ankara\u2019ya gider. Burada, muhabere (haberle\u015fme) b\u00f6l\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne se\u00e7ilir. Anas\u0131n\u0131n buna har\u00e7l\u0131k g\u00f6nderecek g\u00fcc\u00fc yoktur. Haftada bir g\u00fcn d\u0131\u015far\u0131 iznine \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131 kahveye, sinemaya, lokantaya giderken; bu da oradaki arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yard\u0131m\u0131yla bir mand\u0131rada \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, har\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 zamanda; yo\u011furt, peynir, tereya\u011f\u0131 imalat\u0131n\u0131 da \u00f6\u011frenir. Askerli\u011finin bitimine do\u011fru komutanlar\u0131 bunu sevdikleri i\u00e7in, askeriyede teskere b\u0131rakmas\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylerler. Hemen anas\u0131na mektup yaz\u0131p askeriyede kalmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyip izin ister. Di\u011fer karde\u015fi Mevl\u00fct de, astsubay okulunu kazanm\u0131\u015f okumaktad\u0131r. Anas\u0131, ba\u015f\u0131nda bir erke\u011fi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bunun askeriyede kalmas\u0131na izin vermez ve gelmesini s\u00f6yler.<\/p>\n Teskeresini al\u0131p d\u00f6nen Muharrem A\u011fabey, tekrar \u00e7ift\u00e7ilik yapmaya ba\u015flar fakat yabana gidip mand\u0131rada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istemektedir. Anas\u0131ndan zorla izin al\u0131r ve Ankara\u2019ya giderek tekrar mand\u0131rada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flar. Mand\u0131rada \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flayal\u0131 iki seneye yakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Biraz para biriktirmi\u015ftir. Anas\u0131 bunu getirtmek i\u00e7in ni\u015fanlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6yler ve gelmesini ister. Bolvadin\u2019e gelen Muharrem Demirhan, kendilerine g\u00f6re m\u00fctevazi bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapar ve d\u00fcnya evine girer. Evlili\u011finden \u00fc\u00e7 k\u0131z, iki o\u011flan; be\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011fu olur. O\u011fullar\u0131ndan Abd\u00fclkadir emekli binba\u015f\u0131, di\u011fer o\u011flu Ali R\u0131za ise tapu m\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden emekli olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n S\u00dcT\u00dcN \u00a0\u00d6ZELL\u0130KLER\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u00fct, g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nemli bir yer tutan besinler aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Do\u011fumdan itibaren ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ilk besin olan s\u00fct, ba\u015fta geli\u015fmekte olan \u00e7ocuklar, hamileler, emzikliler, ya\u015fl\u0131lara faydal\u0131 olmak \u00fczere v\u00fccut i\u00e7in gerekli besinleri i\u00e7inde bulundurur.<\/p>\n S\u00fct denilince akl\u0131m\u0131za hemen inek s\u00fct\u00fc gelir. En \u00e7ok s\u00fct veren hayvan inektir.\u00a0 S\u00fct\u00fc haram olmayan hayvanlar\u0131n, do\u011fumundan sonraki sa\u011f\u0131lan s\u00fct\u00fcne biz \u201ca\u011f\u0131z\u201d<\/strong> deriz. Bu s\u00fct, birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn devam eder. Rengi biraz sar\u0131 olup, normal s\u00fcte g\u00f6re daha ya\u011fl\u0131 ve k\u0131vaml\u0131d\u0131r, \u00e7ok vitaminlidir. Koyun s\u00fct\u00fc inek s\u00fct\u00fcne g\u00f6re daha ya\u011fl\u0131 ve i\u00e7erisinde daha \u00e7ok vitamin bulundurur. \u0130\u00e7erisindeki ya\u011f oran\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan zengin olan s\u00fctlerden birisi de cam\u0131z (manda) s\u00fct\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bunun rengi di\u011fer s\u00fctlere g\u00f6re daha beyazd\u0131r.<\/p>\n S\u00dcT\u00c7\u00dcL\u00dcK VE KAP \u00a0YO\u011eURT\u00c7ULU\u011eU<\/strong><\/p>\n Bolvadin\u2019de hayvanc\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ok geli\u015fti\u011fi i\u00e7in, s\u00fct i\u015fleme sekt\u00f6r\u00fc de \u00e7ok geli\u015fmi\u015fti. Peynir, tereya\u011f\u0131, kaymak \u00fcretimi fazla idi. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc Cafer G\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f, her g\u00fcn Ankara\u2019ya s\u00fct g\u00f6nderirdi. Bahar aylar\u0131nda koyun s\u00fct\u00fc bol olurdu. Yaz\u0131n hayvanlar buzalad\u0131\u011f\u0131 (do\u011furdu\u011fu) i\u00e7in s\u00fct \u00e7ok olurdu. K\u0131\u015f\u0131n, s\u00fct \u00fcretimi daha az olurdu. Ankara\u2019daki \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 mand\u0131radan s\u00fct mam\u00fclleri imalat\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenen S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc M\u00e2rem, \u00e7ift\u00e7ili\u011fin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra yo\u011furt\u00e7uluk da yapmak ister. Eskiden Bolvadin\u2019deki evlerin \u00e7o\u011funun kap\u0131s\u0131 bir atl\u0131 araba girecek kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck ve geni\u015f olurdu. Bu t\u00fcr kap\u0131lara \u201cborda kap\u0131\u201d<\/strong> denirdi. Bunlar\u0131n evleri de borda kap\u0131l\u0131 bir evdir. Evlerinin bu kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131na \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r kazan\u0131n\u0131 kurar. Alt\u0131na odunlar\u0131 doldurur. Kom\u015fulara, s\u00fctlerini kendisine satmalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yler. Evlerinde bir-iki sa\u011f\u0131l\u0131r ine\u011fi olan kom\u015fular\u0131, sabahlar\u0131 sa\u011fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fctleri getirip verirler. Gelen s\u00fctleri kaynatan Muharrem A\u011fabey, \u0130zmit\u2019te astsubay olan karde\u015fi Mevl\u00fct\u2019\u00fcn getirdi\u011fi birer kiloluk cam k\u00e2selere s\u00fctleri doldurup yo\u011furt \u00e7alar. Bu yo\u011furtlar\u0131, \u015fehrin en kalabal\u0131k ticaret merkezi olan \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131 Camii \u00f6n\u00fcne g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp satar. G\u00fcnden g\u00fcne bu i\u015fi \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131r. Daha sonra lokantalara, a\u015fevlerine de vermeye ba\u015flar. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fck, yo\u011furt\u00e7uluk, peynircilik i\u015fine bu \u015fekilde \u201cs\u0131f\u0131rdan\u201d ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olur<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0 ORTA\u011eINA \u00a0S\u00dcT\u00c7\u00dcL\u00dcK<\/strong><\/p>\n Peynir, s\u00fct, tereya\u011f\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in olsun; yeti\u015fkinler i\u00e7in olsun mutlaka t\u00fcketilmesi gereken bir besin maddesidir. \u0130\u00e7erisinde bulunan kalsiyum ve di\u011fer maddeler, bilhassa kemikler i\u00e7in gereklidir. S\u00fct\u00fc t\u00fcketmeden \u00f6nce mutlaka iyice kaynatmak gerekir. Koyun s\u00fct\u00fcnden yap\u0131lan taze peynirde \u201cBrusella\u201d<\/strong> denilen hastal\u0131k olabilir. Bu peynirlerin, en az \u00fc\u00e7 ay buzhanede beklemesi gerekir. \u00c7ocukluk d\u00f6nemlerimizde yokluktan; yumurta, peynir, tereya\u011f\u0131, et gibi v\u00fccudun ihtiyac\u0131 olan yiyecekleri yeterli \u015fekilde yiyemedik. Gen\u00e7lik y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131zda imkan\u0131m\u0131z oldu, yemek istedik bu seferde doktorlar: \u201cTereya\u011f\u0131 yemeyin, et yemeyin, haftada sadece bir tane yumurta yiyin.\u201d <\/strong>diye bizi devaml\u0131 uyard\u0131lar. Bu sefer de korkudan yiyemedik. \u015eimdi de bunun aksini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar, bol bol yiyin, diyorlar. \u0130nsan zamanla \u015funu \u00f6\u011freniyor: Bunlara kulak asmadan, Allah\u2019\u0131n biz kullar\u0131 i\u00e7in verdi\u011fi her nimetten, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ka\u00e7madan yememiz gerekiyor.<\/p>\n S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc M\u00e2rem, bu alanda daha b\u00fcy\u00fcmek i\u00e7in ortakl\u0131k yapmaya karar verir. Y\u0131l 1964\u2026 Rahmetlik S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc Kadir Akg\u00f6l ile birlikte, Bekira\u011fa Mahallesi\u2019nin bitimindeki Kesik \u00c7e\u015fme\u2019nin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir s\u00fct i\u015fleme d\u00fckkan\u0131 a\u00e7arlar. O g\u00fcn i\u00e7in b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc d\u00fckkanlar\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fmelerin yan\u0131ndad\u0131r. Sebebi ise s\u00fct\u00fc so\u011futmak i\u00e7in suya ihtiya\u00e7 vard\u0131r. Burada s\u00fct al\u0131m\u0131 yaparlar ve peynircilik i\u015fine girerler. B\u00fcy\u00fck teneke kaplar\u0131n \u00fcstlerine kapakl\u0131 bo\u011faz yapt\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bir arabac\u0131 tutarlar ve bu arabac\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck olarak k\u00f6yleri dola\u015f\u0131p k\u00f6yl\u00fclerin koyun s\u00fctlerini al\u0131r getirir. Bu olay bir bahar s\u00fcresince devam eder. S\u00fct, kesilen, bozulan bir s\u0131v\u0131d\u0131r. Kesildi\u011fi zaman pek bir i\u015fe yaramaz. B\u00fct\u00fcn emekler bo\u015fa gider. Bir b\u00fcy\u00fck teneke koyun peyniri 70 litre s\u00fctten olur. \u0130nek peyniri ise 140-150 litre s\u00fctten olur. S\u00fct toplama i\u015fi bitince s\u00fctler, alt\u0131nda ate\u015fler yanan b\u00fcy\u00fck bak\u0131r kazanlar\u0131n i\u00e7ine d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr. Belli bir \u0131s\u0131ya ula\u015fan s\u00fctler, tenekelere doldurulur ve mahalle \u00e7e\u015fmesindeki hat\u0131la (yalak) so\u011fumas\u0131 i\u00e7in konur. Burada \u0131l\u0131y\u0131ncaya kadar bekletilen s\u00fctler, tekrar bak\u0131r kaplara d\u00f6k\u00fclerek mayalan\u0131r. Belli bir sertli\u011fe gelip peynirle\u015fen s\u00fctler, belli kal\u0131plarda kesilerek tuzlu suyun i\u00e7erisine at\u0131l\u0131p yar\u0131m g\u00fcn bekletilir. \u0130yice k\u0131vam\u0131na gelen peynirler tenekelere doldurulur. \u015eimdiki gibi tenekenin a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 kapatacak pres bask\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, teneke lehimcileri gelip tenekelerin a\u011f\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 lehimlerler. \u0130\u00e7erisine katk\u0131 maddeleri kat\u0131lmadan yap\u0131lan bu peynirler, buzhaneye g\u00f6nderilir.<\/p>\n SULU \u00a0S\u00dcT<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir litre s\u00fct\u00fcn i\u00e7erisine, bir bardak s\u00fct d\u00f6ksek hi\u00e7 belli olmaz. Bunu ancak s\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcler, s\u00fct\u00fcn k\u0131vam\u0131na bakarak bilirler. Sabah erkenden s\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc sa\u011fan kad\u0131nlar, bunu bekletmeden s\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp satarlard\u0131. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn elinde termometreye benzeyen bir \u00e2let vard\u0131. \u015e\u00fcphelendi\u011fi s\u00fct\u00fcn i\u00e7ine bunu koyunca s\u00fct\u00fcn sulu olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Bazen b\u00f6yle oldu\u011funda S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc M\u00e2rem, s\u00fct\u00fc getireni uyard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131n: \u201cS\u00fct\u00fcn kab\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alkalad\u0131yd\u0131m.\u201d<\/strong> diyerek durumu kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n Hz. \u00d6mer zaman\u0131nda, bir k\u0131z\u0131 olan dul bir kad\u0131n ya\u015farm\u0131\u015f. Bu kad\u0131n, ine\u011finden sa\u011fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u00fck s\u00fctle ge\u00e7iniyor. Her g\u00fcn sa\u011fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fct\u00fcn i\u00e7erisine bir tas su d\u00f6k\u00fcyor ve gidip sat\u0131yor. Bu olay k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekiyor ve annesini bunu yapmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in uyar\u0131yor. Hz \u00d6mer g\u00f6r\u00fcrse ceza verece\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Annesi: \u201c\u00d6mer nereden g\u00f6recek!\u201d<\/strong> diye kabul etmiyor. K\u0131z da: \u201c\u00d6mer<\/strong> g\u00f6rmezse Allah g\u00f6r\u00fcyor.\u201d<\/strong> der.\u00a0 Bir m\u00fcddet sonra, yayl\u0131ma \u00e7\u0131kan inekleri ak\u015fam eve gelmez. Hemen bunu aramaya \u00e7\u0131karlar. Bir de bakarlar ki inekleri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir su \u00e7ukurunda bo\u011fulmu\u015f. Kad\u0131n feryat etmeye ba\u015flar. K\u0131z\u0131: \u201cHi\u00e7 a\u011flama anne!…Cezan\u0131 \u00e7ekiyorsun. Her g\u00fcn s\u00fcte katt\u0131\u011f\u0131n su, Allah taraf\u0131ndan bu \u00e7ukurda topland\u0131 ve ine\u011fimizin bo\u011fulmas\u0131na sebep oldu.\u201d<\/strong> der. Kad\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r fakat i\u015f i\u015ften de ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Kuyu kazan kendi d\u00fc\u015fer, k\u00f6pr\u00fc yapan kendi ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n \u00a0\u00a0 TEPS\u0130 \u00a0YO\u011eURDU<\/strong><\/p>\n S\u00fct\u00fc mayalay\u0131p, ilk olarak yo\u011furt haline getirenler T\u00fcrkler olmu\u015ftur. Yo\u011furt, Avrupa\u2019ya Orta Asya\u2019dan yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnyada, T\u00fcrk\u00e7e kelime olan \u201cyo\u011furt\u201d<\/strong> ad\u0131yla ge\u00e7er. Yo\u011furdun v\u00fccuda faydalar\u0131 saymakla bitmez. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc Kadir\u2019le ortakl\u0131ktan ayr\u0131lan Muharrem Demirhan, kendi imalathanesini kurar ve peynirin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra yo\u011furt imalat\u0131na giri\u015fir. 1970\u2019de \u00f6nce tepsi yo\u011furdu, Bakkal Ap\u0131c\u0131k taraf\u0131ndan \u0130zmir-Menemen\u2019den trenle getirtilip sat\u0131\u015f\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131yordu. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc M\u00e2rem, bu bo\u015flu\u011fu doldurmak i\u00e7in kendisi imal etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u00d6nceleri, ask\u0131lara konan tepsi yo\u011furtlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan bakkallara, lokantalara da\u011f\u0131t\u0131ld\u0131. Daha sonra, ba\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine \u00fcst \u00fcste koyduklar\u0131 tepsileri bir cambaz edas\u0131yla bisiklet \u00fczerinde ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131p da\u011f\u0131t\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131lar. Bakkallara elinde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7inko kapla giden \u00e7ocuklar, yolda bunu parmaklaya parmaklaya eve g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrler, geri kalan\u0131 evde mant\u0131n\u0131n makarnan\u0131n, g\u00f6ce yuvala\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcr.<\/p>\n B\u0130R \u00a0KALIP \u00a0PEYN\u0130R<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130htiya\u00e7l\u0131 olan ki\u015filere sadaka-i cariyede bulunmak sevapt\u0131r. Toplumun, bu t\u00fcr ki\u015filere sahip \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131 gerekir. Her g\u00fcn az da olsa sadaka verilmelidir. Bir g\u00fcnl\u00fck yiyece\u011fi bulunan ki\u015finin dilenmesi de haramd\u0131r. Rahmetlik S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc M\u00e2rem, fakiri fukaray\u0131 devaml\u0131 g\u00f6zetir. Bir g\u00fcn, v\u00fccudu sa\u011flam bir adam gelir peynir ister. Gerekli yard\u0131m yap\u0131l\u0131r. Bu adam bunu al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getirince, bunu i\u00e7eriye \u00e7eker ve neden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorar. Adam, i\u015f bulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyince onu imalathanede \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar ve bir ki\u015finin asalak bir halde ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemi\u015f olur.<\/p>\n \u00c7OCUKLUK\u00a0 KORKULARI<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden \u00e7ocuk olmak \u00e7ok zordu. Genellikle otoriter bir baba, eli ma\u015fal\u0131 bir anne olurdu. Ekonomik \u00a0\u015fartlar\u0131ndan m\u0131, usul-kural m\u0131 \u00f6yleydi bilemiyorum. Baba \u00e7ocukla fazla ilgilenmez, sevmez, ok\u015famaz, hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sormaz, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal durumuna g\u00f6re hareket etmezdi. \u00c7ocu\u011fun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde baba; sert, her \u015feye k\u0131zan, bazen d\u00f6ven, sadece eve ekmek ve yiyecek getiren ki\u015fi olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. Yaramazl\u0131k yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman anne: \u201cAk\u015fam gelince babana s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim!\u201d<\/strong> dedi\u011fi zaman yaramazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bitmesi, baban\u0131n bir korku arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koyuyordu. Baba geldi\u011fi zaman \u00e7ocuklar evin bir k\u00f6\u015fesine sinerlerdi.<\/p>\n \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n, sokakta s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131z oyun h\u00fcrriyetleri vard\u0131 fakat evde h\u00fcrriyetleri k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131yd\u0131. Evde yap\u0131lan bir yaramazl\u0131k, korkutularak cezaland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Bazen \u201c\u00d6c\u00fc geliyor!\u201d<\/strong> Bazen \u201cDede geliyor!\u201d<\/strong> Bazen \u201cGazana gapar\u0131n!\u201d<\/strong> Bazen de \u201cDonuma guyar\u0131n!\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6zleriyle \u00e7ocuklara korku verilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u00c7ocuk safl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bunlar\u0131n hepsine de inan\u0131rd\u0131k. \u00d6\u011fleden sonra okuldan gelen \u00e7ocuk, anas\u0131ndan ekmek istedi\u011finde ak\u015fam\u0131 beklemesi isteniyorsa, \u00e7ocuk soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p hem a\u011flar hem de kap\u0131y\u0131 ta\u015flayarak: \u201cEkmek veeer!\u201d<\/strong> diye ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131. Ana da utanc\u0131ndan susmas\u0131 i\u00e7in babas\u0131 ile korkuturdu.<\/p>\n GECE\u00a0 GEZMELER\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n Televizyonun bilinmedi\u011fi d\u00f6nemlerde kom\u015fu ili\u015fkileri, akraba- dost ziyaretleri devaml\u0131 olurdu. Uzun k\u0131\u015f geceleri sokaklar, birbirine misafirli\u011fe giden ki\u015filerle dolard\u0131. Misafirlikte \u00e7ay i\u00e7ilir, \u00e7ay olmazsa bile gavurga gavrulur, veya g\u00f6lle pi\u015firilirdi. B\u00f6ylece dostluklar peki\u015ftirilir; dert al\u0131n\u0131r, dert verilirdi. Bazen\u00a0 \u201cCin\u201d<\/strong> den, \u201cPeri\u201d<\/strong> den bahsedilince, gece evlere korkuyla gidilirdi. Bu aptal kutusu televizyon evlere girdi; muhabbetler, dostluklar, dertle\u015fmeler sona erdi. Hepimiz bunun esiri olduk.<\/p>\n Her evde, bak\u0131rdan yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck kazan mutlaka olurdu. Bu kazan hem \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r suyu \u0131s\u0131tmaya yarar; hem de bulgur kaynatmak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Kazan\u0131n \u00fcst k\u0131sm\u0131, odun ate\u015finden kalan isle hep simsiyah olurdu. Evimizin kilerinde ters \u00e7evrili duran kazan, bana devaml\u0131 korku verirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc yaramazl\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, bu kazan\u0131n i\u00e7ine kapat\u0131lma korkusu verilirdi. \u00c7ama\u015f\u0131r y\u0131kad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerin oca\u011f\u0131nda, siyah bir torba bacadan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 sall\u0131 dururdu. \u201cBak, dede torba sallad\u0131!\u201d<\/strong> diye korkutulurdum ve \u00e7ok korkard\u0131m. Sonradan anlad\u0131m ki, bu torba bacan\u0131n kurumunu temizlemek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131l\u0131yormu\u015f.<\/p>\n DONUMA\u00a0 GUYARIN<\/strong><\/p>\n Bizim, uzaktan biraz akrabam\u0131z olan Ay\u015fa Aba ( Ay\u015fe Abla) ad\u0131nda bir kad\u0131n vard\u0131. Bize s\u0131k gelirdi., Uzun boylu, iri yap\u0131l\u0131, biraz sert miza\u00e7l\u0131, otoriter, \u201cOsmanl\u0131\u201d<\/strong> diye tabir edebilece\u011fimiz bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. Geni\u015f, lacivert \u00e7i\u00e7ekli bir \u015falvar giyerdi. Evimizde herkes onu \u00e7ok severdi fakat ben sevmezdim. O geldi\u011fi zaman korkuyla hemen bir k\u00f6\u015feye sinerdim. \u00c7ocuk olarak biraz hareketlendi\u011fim zaman: \u201cG\u00f6zel dur!<\/strong> Yoksa donuma guyar\u0131n!\u201d<\/strong> derdi. Akl\u0131m-fikrim \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Ger\u00e7ekten de \u015falvar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ine koyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zannederdim. \u00c7ocukluk masumiyetiyle buna inan\u0131rd\u0131m. O donun i\u00e7inde beni neyin bekledi\u011fini bilmezdim. \u0130\u00e7inde ne var? \u00d6c\u00fc m\u00fc var? Canavar m\u0131 var? Bilmiyorum. \u015eimdiki \u00e7ocuklara ayn\u0131 \u015fey dense, s\u0131r\u0131tarak: \u201cGuy!.. Valla \u00e7ok iyi<\/strong> olur!\u201d<\/strong> diyeceklerinde eminim.<\/p>\n \u00c7ocuklar \u00fczerinde, ana-baba ve toplum bask\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ok fazla idi. Bu, biraz muhafazakar toplum yap\u0131m\u0131zdan da kaynaklan\u0131yordu. \u00c7ocuk; bir \u015fey bilmez, anlamaz, yerine konurdu. Ki\u015fili\u011finin geli\u015fmesi i\u00e7in bir \u015fey yap\u0131lmazd\u0131. Ev i\u00e7erisinde s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 verilmezdi. Bu y\u00fczden Bolvadinli olarak; pasif, silik, kendini ifade edemeyen, cesaretsiz, \u00fcrkek, \u201cminareyi kaybetmek\u201d istemeyen bir toplum olarak yeti\u015ftik. \u015eimdiki \u00e7ocuklara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda da, bizim z\u0131tt\u0131m\u0131z olarak yeti\u015ftirildi\u011fini g\u00f6rmekteyiz. Bu fazla \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckler de, \u00e7ocu\u011fu nereye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr bilemiyorum.<\/p>\n HO\u015e \u00a0SAD\u00c2<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u00d6l\u00fcm yokluk de\u011fil, hi\u00e7lik hi\u00e7 de\u011fil, \/ \u015eu f\u00e2ni d\u00fcnyadan terhistir \u00f6l\u00fcm. \/ Kara toprak olup mahvolmak de\u011fil, \/ Maks\u00fbda kavu\u015fmak vaktidir \u00f6l\u00fcm.\u201d<\/strong> Her \u015feyin bir sonu oldu\u011fu gibi insan \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn de bir sonu var. S\u00fct\u00e7\u00fc Muharrem Demirhan 63 ya\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Bir m\u00fcddet hasta yatt\u0131ktan sonra ho\u015f bir sad\u00e2 b\u0131rakarak, 25 Kas\u0131m 1993 Per\u015fembe g\u00fcn\u00fc bu d\u00fcnyadan ayr\u0131l\u0131r. Allah gani gani rahmet eylesin\u2026Ruhuna Fatiha\u2026<\/p>\n N. Sait EK\u0130C\u0130<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n [\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column css_animation=”fadeInUp” width=”1\/4″ css=”.vc_custom_1578166613299{background-color: #eaeaea !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_widget_sidebar sidebar_id=”cs-1″][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" [vc_row full_width=”stretch_row_content” gap=”10″ css=”.vc_custom_1578946643383{margin-top: 90px !important;margin-right: 60px !important;margin-bottom: 60px !important;margin-left: 60px !important;border-right-width: 30px !important;border-bottom-width: 0px !important;border-left-width: 30px !important;}”][vc_column width=”3\/4″ css=”.vc_custom_1578166650492{background-color: rgba(159,160,155,0.09) !important;*background-color: rgb(159,160,155) !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_text css_animation=”fadeIn” css=”.vc_custom_1579376980170{margin-top: 10px !important;}”] S\u00dcT\u00c7\u00dc M\u00c2REM\u00a0 \u00a0(MUHARREM DEM\u0130RHAN) Muharrem Demirhan 1930\u2019da Bolvadin\u2019in Kaymas Mahallesi\u2019nde d\u00fcnyaya geliyor. \u00c7ift\u00e7ilik yapan babas\u0131n\u0131n ad\u0131 Abd\u00fclkadir\u2019dir. Bir o\u011flan ve bir k\u0131z karde\u015fi daha […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"yoast_head":"\n